5 Steps to Take Control of Your relationship or dating life.

Several physcologicsts stated different theories about why we fall in love. The best one according to amusements is the one which states, that love happens because of the urge of humans to reproduce. But that isn't true to extents, as there are people who fall for someone even after their reproductive age had passed years ago.

The best research work done on relationship and it's respective issues was in the book named, "Men are from mars and women are from Venus" by John Gray. For everyone searching for some profound stances over handling opposite sex, should go and read it soon.

There are two personalities a man consists, Alpha or Beta. Alpha males are straight forward over things, like to gain control and stay the epicenter of their surroundings. Whereas beta males are little vice versa. And it's been observed through ages that alpha males do better in love scenarios, due to their less caring attitude which triggers the concept of bliaafbl ignorance.

A general rule goes like this, the one who cares less in a relationship has more power, which is personally been observed by me and some close friends of mine. As there will always be one person among the two, who loves the other person more, who eventually gets more hurt when things fall down to pieces.

Love is a beautiful, ecstatic feeling, which come slow and goes fast. We human fall in it through our insecurities, needs etc. but once we are in, the threads pull up and it's kind of unbreakable until some external factor comes in play.

To control one's love life, one should keep in mind these stances,

1. Refrain from expectations by other person

2. Listen with empathy what your partner has to say

3. A man needs some time away from reality, so don't poke him, let him go, and then he'll be back soon

4. A woman doesn't need solutions to their problems, sometimes they just need your presence and empathetic listening

5. Never doubt on one's loyality, you'll be the victim if your pillar of doubt falls down


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