The migzar way of living one's life

Sherlock holmes  Am I dumb, was the question I used to ask myself in my primary schooling. Basically I had no idea or a benchmark of smart people in my head. Until I watched Sherlock Holmes, and things changed, for better. Sherlock Holmes is an inspiring fictional character, built around a sociopath, leaning towards abnormal activities to gain grits of a super absorbing mind. Being a Sherlock is no cake walk. You need to have sharp focus with almost by birth gifts of observation. Wrong. You can be a detective and to some extent as profound as Sherlock, if you inherit some basic ground skills. A detective is someone who connects dots and solves a crime which was done by criminal in a swift and latent manner. You reach from one clue to a conclusion and then to another clue. It's more like a series of a string, once you start pulling by one end, it reveals itself with time, required you have the grits to do so. As from in...

Why a man should speak less and listen more ? Since past decades there had been "Stoicism" philosophy that was carried around to live a calm and serene life. Stoic, as the name goes is a person who remain calm under pressure and anxiety. It's not just this rule, stoicism is a life long philosophy. What was the last time, you didn't hurry yourself to push for a decision just for the sake of that clock ticking faster than your rational mentality? We are humans, we do make mistakes and the apprehension of commending one is what makes mistakes happen in the first place. So the next time, something demands a rattled and impulsive decision out from you, don't speak. Or speak less. Words had always thought to contain more power than mightiest of the weapons. You won't care for opinions of people you've never known. But that same opinion coming from someone very close to you, can change your thought process in jiffy. Every time we let words pass ...