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Why a man should talk less and listen more ?



Why a man should speak less and listen more ?

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Since past decades there had been "Stoicism" philosophy that was carried around to live a calm and serene life. Stoic, as the name goes is a person who remain calm under pressure and anxiety. It's not just this rule, stoicism is a life long philosophy.

What was the last time, you didn't hurry yourself to push for a decision just for the sake of that clock ticking faster than your rational mentality? We are humans, we do make mistakes and the apprehension of commending one is what makes mistakes happen in the first place. So the next time, something demands a rattled and impulsive decision out from you, don't speak. Or speak less.

Words had always thought to contain more power than mightiest of the weapons. You won't care for opinions of people you've never known. But that same opinion coming from someone very close to you, can change your thought process in jiffy. 
Every time we let words pass out without processing them from a screening test of obscurity, it leads to fatigue in our sense of living. 

Speaking less does makes you mysterious and people tend to get curious over you, but that shouldn't mean you owe them. Speak only when you truely trust the scenario and the person you're uttering it to. Not everyone deserves your explanations.

Coming back to the topic if manhood, when and whence a man speak, it should contain such a thrust and shake in their voice which can rattle the ears of anyone not even involved in the conversation in first place. The cadence can set course of people admiring you and you imposing a good first impression upon everyone you meet day in & out.

Our subconscious mind too plays a role here. When we are in communication drainage, that flow sometimes picks up words from our memory ward and throws it out to people to hear which we may not be in a position to share. The only way to conquer that is not by thinking in the beginning of speaking your clause, rather taking small pauses in between the sentences. A pause changes even your cadence and the seriousness you hold over your topic. 

By stopping, your subconscious mind meets consciousness for a second or two and then it's ready for the underrated job again. To make you flawless in your speaking course.

Hope this article helped you to dwell on certain thoughts about why a man shouldn't talk much and when and how much it needs to be done, when it is demanded.
Some of the best quotes I know and which upholds this..

" They listen more when you speak less"
" Have more than you show, Speak less than you know "
" The smarter you become, less you shit from mouth "
" Talk less, observe more "





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