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Why you should read a book a month.

It had been said how a book makes you warm and humble towards understanding the basic laws of life. Reading too many books at a time isn't healthy and is mere a breadth sucking experience, while reading a book a year is too little to suck in. A good balance then is to read a book, a month. Many great leaders were good readers, and it is true even these days. Be it Benjamin Franklin, Elon musk, Bill gates etc. Subtly there is a pattern inside of this reading paradigm, which if is extracted once, simplifies and fastens the process of knowledge gaining. Some books are so greatly devoted and requires rigorous intention of reading them. Whereas most of the other books can be read by skipping the repeated, not so important parts. Try to keep a pace of reading at least 30 pages in one sitting. And don't stop yourself if you don't know the meaning of some words, for the time being, keep on reading, your vocabulary will improve with time and things shall begin to come wit...

5 Steps to Take Control of Your relationship or dating life.

Several physcologicsts stated different theories about why we fall in love. The best one according to amusements is the one which states, that love happens because of the urge of humans to reproduce. But that isn't true to extents, as there are people who fall for someone even after their reproductive age had passed years ago. The best research work done on relationship and it's respective issues was in the book named, "Men are from mars and women are from Venus" by John Gray. For everyone searching for some profound stances over handling opposite sex, should go and read it soon. There are two personalities a man consists, Alpha or Beta. Alpha males are straight forward over things, like to gain control and stay the epicenter of their surroundings. Whereas beta males are little vice versa. And it's been observed through ages that alpha males do better in love scenarios, due to their less caring attitude which triggers the concept of bliaafbl ig...

How to have an Ideal morning Routine

Everyone has a different routine after waking up in morning. And that's where how our day is going to unfold gets decided. Morning regime isn't a schedule or time table, it's simply a rhythm to which your own self is addicted to for flowing in. Some mornings when I slept deprived of happiness, the first thing I did waking up was to remind my gut, that this world owes you big, for being alive. Your presence matters, to the Cosmos. My ruminations then begin to fade. There were also days when I was straddling over procrastination & hard work. My asceticism subconsciously ordered me to do what's soulful for the heart and mind. And so some mornings I just play my favourite songs, and practice "Dalcé Far Niente" which stands for- the sweetness of doing nothing. Sometimes it depends on how peaceful sleep you had the previous night. Humans are generally able to held up their sleeping time unlike animals, i.e. they an stay awake as long as they want...

Why one must see "into the wild".

Why one should prefer 'into the wild' movie in a must see list. I watched "Into the wild" two years ago, fragments and glimpses of which still remains in me like a child unwilling to settle down. The movie begins with a young man named Christopher Mac'candelles sleeping recklessly on the floor of a train. A soothing tone sets the beginning and conject the bright scent of memories, which one will have after finishing the movie based on the novel with same name. Chris goes through a troubled childhood along with her sister. He finds most of his solace in characters of the books he read. Residing with his not so settled parents, on verge of divorce, he never had any dream of living a normal life. After completing his college, Chris sets on his expedition to wild Alaska. His favourite book being Walden by Henry David Thoreau, taught him numerous lessons which he paraphrases during the movie. He then meets few people who imprints a mark on the...

Why a man should talk less and listen more ?

Why a man should speak less and listen more ? Since past decades there had been "Stoicism" philosophy that was carried around to live a calm and serene life. Stoic, as the name goes is a person who remain calm under pressure and anxiety. It's not just this rule, stoicism is a life long philosophy. What was the last time, you didn't hurry yourself to push for a decision just for the sake of that clock ticking faster than your rational mentality? We are humans, we do make mistakes and the apprehension of commending one is what makes mistakes happen in the first place. So the next time, something demands a rattled and impulsive decision out from you, don't speak. Or speak less. Words had always thought to contain more power than mightiest of the weapons. You won't care for opinions of people you've never known. But that same opinion coming from someone very close to you, can change your thought process in jiffy. Every time we let words pass ...